Maids, Matrons, and Men

I have chosen my maids of honor and my matron of honor and I have finally gotten Ji to somewhat commit to his men while he hasn't yet chosen his best man.

My maids and matron:
I have chosen my matron of honor to be Rissa, Ji's sister. We had a rocky start when we first met but as we got to know each other a bit better we have really gotten along. She's my designated wedding planner and is crazy organized and filled with so many great ideas and being Ji's sister she has a lot of the names and addresses I'll need for the invitations and had already out this information and this has probably saved me an argument. She's been available for any questions about the wedding or married life. She's the older sister I've always wanted.

My maid of honor is my little sister Karlie. We fought a lot as kids, and we still fight a good amount now but we've always been there for each other, and maybes her more than me. When I snuck out of the house, had a broken heart, or didn't clean up she would always be there to either cover for me or comfort me. She's never really gotten along that well with anyone that I've brought home, except for Ji. I value her opinion and I know that I may have not set the best example for her to live by but I hope that she will learn from my mistakes and will follow the good things I have done. We will probably still fight but she's my sister and that's what sisters do.

My third lovely lady is my cousin Sarah. She's the one that I looked up to as a kid. She would come over to babysit and I couldn't wait for my parents to leave. She let us turn the cushions upside down and we would pretend the couch was a spaceship and that we had to save our toys. She was the one I wanted to grow up to be like. Her hand-me-downs were the coolest thing ever because then I could try to look like her. My most beautiful cousin.

Depending how the numbers pan out I may have to ask someone else to be in my wedding party. I'm holding off on this until Ji has decided how many people he is going to have in his party but I know who I'm going to ask. So this place is reserved for her.

The Men:
Ji has not yet picked a best man, nor has he asked all of the people he wants. Two, however, have already confirmed so I will spill the beans on them.

The first he asked is Gord. They have been friends since high school and I know that Gord helped Ji through some of his childhood issues and what not. I'll let Ji write more about Gord because he knows his better but this s what I know... Gord is a super nice and caring guy who has been there for Ji when he needed it. He will definitely be a life long friend of Ji's and I'm glad he has someone to talk to when we have any conflicts.

The next guy he asked is his best friend Jer. I don't know Jer as well because he has been off in far far away Edmonton with the love of his life but the times I mer Jer he was a very kind and fun loving guy. He must definitely get that from his mom. I'd love to sound some more time to get to know Jer better but we shall see how the next few months pan out. And hopefully I can convince Ji to blog a bit and write sone lovely things about Jer here as well.

He has two other men to plans on asking but I won't reveal names until he does and they confirm. So again, I'm stuck waiting on Ji to move his butt and get some wedding stuff done so that I can ask my other lady. I seem whenever wedding things are mentioned Ji runs away and hides or avoids the subject. Hopefully I can get him to sit down in a few weeks and get a lot of things done so that we can move onto the part he's looking forward to: the dinner and cake sampling.

Xoxx
Ginny